Mrs. Chatelaine vs Mrs. Slob. Who Gets Your Vote?

 

 

 

I feel really guilty, like a really bad mother, when people ask me what my kids are studying at university. I only have a vague notion. I say, “Jake’s doing grad work in Theory and Criticism and Micah is going into his last year in Art History,” praying I’m not asked any follow-up questions and quickly changing the subject to climate change. I have made a few attempts to read Jake’s 2016 undergrad thesis (that he even won an award for) but it remains on my bedside table, its little spine barely cracked, providing a good remedy for insomnia. I know. I have earned my F- in “parenting.”

But things may be looking up in my level of engagement vis-a-vis my sons’ studies. Micah is home this summer and taking a requisite Canadian history course via distance learning. As he was doing homework at the dining room table yesterday, he said, “Mom, I think there may be some reading you’d be interested in.” He sent me three scholarly articles about the condition of married women in the post-war era.

Now, this is something I can totally relate to. The article I enjoyed the most is “Mrs. Chatelaine” vs. “Mrs. Slob”: Contestants, Correspondents and the Chatelaine Community in Action, 1961-1969 by Valerie J. Korinek. In 1960, Chatelaine (which was the only Canadian periodical for women at that time) launched a contest to discover “Mrs. Chatelaine”.  The winner was chosen based on her detailed answers to personal questions (e.g., her weight, husband’s income, ages of kids) to more difficult essays about how she  kept house, entertained, and served her church and community.  Contest rules (written and un-written) barred working wives, older women, single women, lesbians, etc.

The first contest winner,  announced in 1961, embodied Chatelaine’s gold standard of the Canadian wife and mother — middle-class, conservative, heterosexual. It was Mrs. Joyce Sacton from Saskatchewan who won (cash, a trip to Paris, etc.) from almost 6,000 entries. The former school teacher turned farm wife and mother of three  preserved 140 quarts of fruit and vegetables each year, made her kids’ clothes as well as her own, ran a community swim program and was actively involved in nine other community groups.

While many women celebrated Chatelaine’s definition of femininity, others begged to differ. The letter that created traction for an alternate definition of the role of women in post-war society — including the limits of suburbia and the sexual status quo — was written by Mrs. Beatrice Maitland from New Brunswick. You will enjoy her letter:

While Chatelaine never did introduce a contest for “Mrs. Slob,” Maitland’s letter encouraged other women to write in and lend their support in solidarity.  It was a wake-up call for Chatelaine and they modified their criteria for their poster woman. It is doubtful that a working wife and mother would have won in 1969 if it wasn’t for the humourous yet compelling argument made by Mrs. Maitland.

In fairness to Chatelaine they also ran articles in the 1960s that examined social issues and sexism. Their then-editor, the iconic Doris Anderson, wrote feminist pieces such as: “Some women just aren’t  cut out to be mothers.”

I’ve wondered that about myself sometimes. But I’m definitely feeling better about my efforts now.

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